My husband held the camera and the flash went off...there were no real poses or smiles, just me in my parents' living room looking like a "Nottie" while petting a cat in a sweater!  The cat was better dressed than me!  We had just arrived to my parents' house from driving seven hours from Chicago for Thanksgiving and we all know there's nothing like a long car ride to make you look tired, smelly and truly 'not hot'.